The big question: How fast can I build a better and stronger relationship?
First off, I must start by telling you that every human on planet Earth possess a different character and personality. Most especially, no two people can think alike in the same way. There is really no hard and fast rules that guide the ways matters should be handled. This is so because everybody does not use the same strategy for solving a particular problem. The tips you will get from me are just the basic guidelines. They will assist in on your quest for a stronger relationship.
1. Be Honest
I believe you are aware of the fact that it can be difficult to speak the truth always. However, I have tried various techniques and have discovered that it always pays to speak the truth. It might seem rather hard, but it worth the effort. If your mate founds out the real truth and still sticks to you; it means that this person is really in love with you.
2. Do Not Tell Lies
Telling lies has been known to harm and eventually weaken relationships. It is often noticed that if a partners tells too much lies to his/her mate, a feel of detachment would arise. This is often because of the guilt we feel within us when we tell lies. The foundation of a good relationship is TRUTH. You might have told some lies before, so I highly suggest that onwards, no lie should be found in your mouth. You mate would increase his/her love for you when he/she is told nothing but the truth. Nobody loves putting up with fear (that he/she would someday find out the real truth), hence, the need to build a better and stronger relationship.
3. Show Appreciation
You need to express gratitude when your mate does something nice and you can reciprocate this act by doing or giving them something in return. Please, don’t ever underestimate whatever your partner gets you – most especially during the relationship. Nothing lasts forever. The only exception is if you are willing to make it stay. If you wish to lengthen the period of your relationship, let your mate know you really love him/her. Show appreciation for their importance and how this person has affected you.
4. Excuses
Avoid using excuses of a busy schedule to overlook your life personally. You need to strike a balance. Equal amounts of time should be devoted to yourself and your partner. You can gain support financially by working. But you need a partner to offer you emotional assistance. These two supports are very important for happy living.

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